I think the Snickers was a good thing (are you shocked???). Especially since it was modeled in front of your daughter. It's a simple kindness.
However, ditch the "rescuing" behavior on the "don't worry about not calling; we were playing Monopoly" thing.
That's my two cents.
Puppy
Ok, I'm shocked!!! I agree with you 100%. The candy bar was just me, but the rescuing--perfect word for that!!! I realized that about 5 seconds after I emailed him. And that's why maybe I need to hold on to them for a little before sending and think about what I'm doing. I have the knowledge (I learned from the master right?), I just don't always use it!! Karen