Quote: I understand the love bank concept and have talked to my husband about it. But I'm not really sure what we should do now that we understand the concept.Can you help? Yes, I know what you mean, have you gone to the Marriagebuliders.com website.
This came up in another thread, if simply asking will not work. It was suggested to use fingers, in that context a W would hold up how many fingers her love tank was, when she was was mad/uncomfortable/ disgruntled. She would hold up 3 fingers in an arguement, and he knows her love tank is way down and he best do something about it. So until life becomes normal, use the finger method, or something similar, so you have a way of showing your love tank.
I wish I would have known this before, then maybe not, hers was probably near empty, in the last years.
