This way of thinking does seem to help. Even when those around me thought I was crazy, I had a voice at the back of my head saying that I did not have to have a bad outcome if I didn't want to. Seems like it's focusing on the positives and the desired outcome that can make all the difference, but feels so hard not to focus on the unwanted things and let them snowball...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
