Good Morning ladies, I was wondering if I could join your thread. I've read through almost every post and the enthusiasm and hope all of you have especially T2L really boosts my optimism. I agree that T2l should have a morning call with everyone - the info and advice you provide could be a website all on it's own. And well your a salesperson too, because I'm going to go out and purchase the "Surviving an Affair" book, just based on all the info you have gotten from it. I could use a little help in the flirty part, I've never been that type of girl - I'm shy. I have been reading 7 days to sex appeal, just because dh says there is no passion with me. And he says he's done trying but to hell if I am. We are meant for each other. And speaking of Prayers this is a prayer I have found yesterday that I have begun saying every morning when I wake up and every night before I go to bed. There are a few but here is 2 I like: Lord Jesus, grant that I and my spouse my have a true and understanding love for each other. Grant that we may both be filled with faith and trust. Give us the grace to live with each other in peace and harmony. May we always bear with one another's weaknesses and grow from each other's strengths. Help us to forgive one another's failings and grant us patience, kindness, cheerfulness and the spirit of placing the well-being of one another ahead of self.
May the love that brought us together grow and mature with each passing year. Bring us both ever closer to You through our love for each other. Let our love grow to perfection.
And...
Dear God, You have defined my desire: to be immeasurable value to my spouse. Guide me in the ways that lead to this richness in relationship, and be glorified in my every effort. I want to honor my spouse - and you - through my behavior. How can I do that today? Please show me and empower me.
If nothing else please I wish you hope and love in your endeavor to retrieve the love and marriage I know you all wanted.
Jen Me 32 H 35 Married 8yrs 3/11/2000 - Together 10 yrs No Children
1st Bomb - 7/1999 2nd Bomb - 8/2004 3rd A - 10/2006 4th A & Bomb - 10/12/08
Done sweeping things under the rug, I need to start doing something...But what?