You know, we still have the house plans in the computer. And I have a box in a closet with all of the inside stuff. Maybe someday. I too am glad that we weren't in the middle of it when MLC hit. I still also just wish I realized what this was earlier. Maybe I would be handling it a little better than I am. That was actually one of the first signs. H became hesitant about moving. Had one stupid excuse after another, then the market tanked anyway.

Don't you just love the OW? I had one actually tell me that I needed to talk to my H. I just finally told her she wasn't the first and she wouldn't be the last. She never called him again that i know of. The other one, I haven't even bothered to call. Why waste my time and energy. I guess H isn't speaking to me today. Big surprise after Monday and all of the gushing yesterday morning. He told me too much. So.......

I like the musical idea. I am actually being dragged to some art museum on Saturday. I have never really been a museum kinda girl, I like zoos better but it will be fun just to get out of the house.


If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.