Ali:

Thanks for your reply too.

That is very interesting about the astrology thing. It's funny that you reference astrology because my BF and I were just looking up our birthdates on a website http://www.paulsadowski.com and it has a lot of interesting info.

It also has a fortune cookie thing and mine said that The hard times will begin to fade, joy will take their place. I know it's silly but I've come take note on what the fortune cookie says. About 3 1/2 years ago, H & I had gone to each Chinese food and talk about our future and where we were heading and we agreed it was time to build our dream home. (H was in EA with OW at the time) My fortune cookie said that I'd be in a beautiful new home in a year. I was. A week before I found out about OW, I went to eat Chinese food and the fortune cookie said Make a budget and stick to it. Little did I know that I'd be living on less money. But, I have a budget and I'm doing pretty good with it. So, I believe that the hard times will begin to fade.

Don't get me wrong. I am a Christian and I do believe and God. Maybe it's His way of getting me to listen.