Sleeper, your situation is intriguing. what the hell is "the bono style"? did you wear all black, with orange glasses?
Ideally you will reduce contact with her and she will reach out to you. Every time you contact her you will make her laugh or smile or remember something good, which will re-inforce her need to contact you. All this contact will causing OM to become indignant and demanding, and you know the rest.
