I grew up having a mile section plus that my Grandparents and Parents owned, of farm ground and woods. When I moved in with H we lived in a mobile home trailer park that wasn't the nicest! We lived there for 8 years. For a wide open spaces girl who closest neighbor was 1 mile away it was a huge shock to have people who were 15 feet from me. I was so glad when we got to move back out to the country.
H has made the comment that he doesn't want to move back to a trailer park. That has got me wondering if OW didn't rent a trailer in a park somewhere, and that is why he won't move in with her.
It is amazing how the OW seems to feel entitled to tell you what you should be thinking and how it should be. I feel that is the way it works weather they are talking to you or not. They are putting their plans with your H in the way of the dreams you have created.
