But remember to expose your husband's affair to the light of day. Don't hide it from anyone, including your children. Transparency is like chemotherapy. Hopefully, there is someone who is talking to your husband about the tragic decisions he's making, and can influence him to change course."
Frank Pittman's advice is to go do something else for a couple of years until the affair ends.
Janis Abrahams Springs states the following statistics about affairs:
10% last one day 10% more than one day, less than one month 50% more than a month, less than a year 40% 2 years or more, and the vast majority don't go over 3 years
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
