JUST USED LRT-WHAT DO I DO NOW???

[Sanderika]

Hello all...

I disappeared from here for a few days. The L visit was way more than I could handle. I am not convinced that she is going to be good for me. She filed my answer and counter claim after I signed all the papers and she added an attachment that I was supposed to read first on email and she never sent the email for approval. She filed with the court and mailed my H his copies on Friday 10/17/08.

I now need to set her straight on some minor technicalities in her writing.

My H came over on Sunday and it was a very nice 3 hour visit. He rec. his copies of my papers on Sat. and I really thought he wanted to talk the whole while he was here about it but never brought it up so I did'nt either. I know he got his copies because I got mine and we are in the same town same mail route.

I looked great when H showed up. The house was clean, there was a fresh apple pie and homemade pumpkin cookies all made for son and I for this week to eat. The house smelled so yummy. It was warm and cozy. I might be reading into this, but H didn't really want to leave. I DB during the whole visit. When he left I sent him with a dozen cookies.

H showed up at 2:30 to pick up some granite slabs we had in the field and brought me my mail. It was a bonus for me that everything here was A-OK. H could see just what he was leaving and missing. It could not have worked out better. My son was friendly and hung out with him a little. Son is still very angry at his dad.

I wrote in my journal....Very Nice Visit. I hope H has fond memories of the visit as well. I hope he is thinking that it was nice and friendly. A good place to come to. No negatives. I hope he realizes that he has friends here and that we love him and will continue to treat him kind with forgiveness and will not judge his choices and actions. I want this house to be a safe haven for him.

Maybe I'm reading more into it. H was here for 3 hours, he could have loaded the granite and delivered the mail and left.
I know he hasn't broken up with the OW, but it was a gorgeous weekend and he wasn't with her at all....Hmmmmmm. I know this from our conversation.

H called first to make sure I would be home but it was a surprise visit...I enjoyed it. I am sure H did too. He had a hard time leaving. Let's hope he pays us another visit sometime soon.

OH, while he was here we did not talk about the R or the D. I didn't mention it at all and neither did he. There wasn't even an attempt. That has to be a good thing?!?!?!?

You can all tell I still have hope. Am I being foolish????

Thank you all for reading up on the latest with me....I appreciate it.

I might be getting ready for a new thread...I will call the next one: On The "D" Trail, A Place I've Never been...

Sanderika