BC, time changes everything. We like to think that things will always stay the same. but life can always change. Whether we want it or not, and regardless of how much we work towards trying to control or change it. You can only do your best and hope for the best. That's it.
Do I "trust" my husband? At this moment in time there's nothing to indicate there is anyone else or he wants to leave. But I realize nothing is predictable. It can always happen again. It could always happen regardless of who I was married to. This website wouldn't exist if this was such a unique or uncommon occurance. Does this bother me? Not as bad as it would have in the past. I'm happy, and I know I can survive and have a great life with or without him. I'd prefer he would want to be with me, and I do want my family together for my kids sake, but I will be fine. Life is good.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
