Seems like a ton of pressure on her, especially since she says she doesn't have those feelings for you, what with all the MC, homework and such. I'm surprised that she even bothers. I'd be happy if she did any of it. But all this apparent pressure doesn't seem to be "not working", or at least not entirely. I think she likes the idea of you being around doting on her, but is it just using you or more?
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I am very faithful about doing this, W however is not. Usually only does it when i bring it up.
I wouldn't bring it up when she doesn't do it. She might right now, but eventually she'll tell you to shove it. You need to focus on what you are doing without worrying about what she's doing or not doing.
Last thing: With all your efforts seemingly devoted entirely to her (do you basically clean her house without living there?) and very little self-care, I think you'll burn out. And I don't think it's a healthy relationship where one person gives gives gives and the other just takes. What things can you list that you do for yourself. Do you have even one activity that takes you away from her and is solely for yourself?
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
