Quoting Jeannine:
Lately, I've come to realize that I've been planting seeds that bare negative fruit.


Jeannine -- I think this is a REALLY important realization and lesson for ALL of us! (Plus, your post was fun to read in its humor! )

What are we inviting when we act:
Broken
Unattractive
Undesirable
....

Not gonna do it!
Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.