excellent!!

I think this can prove to be a usefull place for all.

just thought of a few more...

expecting h to read my mind, as if he should just know that I've had a tough day and need a hug instead of just asking for one or giving him one.

expecting or constantly seeking assurance that all is well

asking for what I want

accepting that all is well

letting go of fear of rejection

letting go of fear of "the inevitable" (a rather defeatest attitude wich can only lead to that old self fullfilling profecy of failure)


red = neg or problem
green = possitive or solution
blue = what needs work

LL