I agree that there has to be no secrets, and this is something that I have asked for a long time, and it is always sworn to me that he has been. I have asked him about emails, and was always told he only has what I know about, but have found that wasn't the case. I don't believe he will ever be 100% open and honest with me, I don't think he can be. And this of course is a big issue because how can we truly have a good relationship without it? Its funny our next dialogue question, and this is what husband picked as he put the list together is "How do I feel about keeping secrets? so it should be intresting when we do this one what comes about.
He had his first C session yesterday did really give me alot of info on it, but said that it went really well and that he was glad he went. I do hope it will help him in some way.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!