nc...Im sorry your feeling like this.Your role in their lives is just as important as the mom. They look up to you, and although they may want their mommy, they are young (about the same age as mine) and once they hit a certain age that will change. Im not saying for all kids, but usually does. There interest changee and they want to hang out with dad. I know this from experience from my own. My kids want me "at night" but when its play time they want daddy.

Although because H is gone a lot out of sight out of mind thing kicks in. Im here 24/7 with them, no sitters or anything. So that makes a difference too. But when he's home they are in "daddy" mode.

They love you nc don't ever doubt that. Don't move away, that would be bad for them, they need you in there life. They really do. Even if H and I were getting divorce, as much as I might be bitter, I would never ever keep them from him. I couldn't and wouldn't. I know how much they love him and how much he loves them.

Your kids need both of there parents.

YOur important nc.. remember that \:\)

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.