Awwww that sounds great!!! LMAO....I love the pics. H and I have been doing that recently and it's so weird yet exciting since we never did that before.
Things seem to be going so well for you Daisy ((((hugs))))!!
Whether he is being realistic or not it is so cute that he can't wait to go back home!!!
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
What a whirlwind!!! I think I am still in a bit of shock that he is home so soon. I'm very happy though.
I picked him up last night at the airport and we went home, ML, went to sleep. Nothing too exciting here as he was exhausted from not getting sleep the night before and traveling all day across the country. ML is always nice though.
Today was a good day. We slept in a bit and then had to run around town and get him settled back in. We had lunch together. Watched a movie. ML again. Just kinda hung out. I just got home a little bit ago from taking him to the place he is staying so he could move his stuff back in there and go out with friends tonight.
Some very exciting things have happened though. Today was like all future talk, him saying things, me saying things. Wow!
1. He decided a couple of days ago that we are going to get a place together when we gets our finances settled! He is even going to tell his friend that he is not going to be able to move out with him.
2. We will share a room/bed in the new house. We are not going to do the seperate room thing we were originally talking about. We will just be married again!
3. He is going to find his wedding ring when he goes through his stuff tonight and start wearing it again!
4. A couple more ILYs exchanged.
5. Future talk including finances, children, moving to his next training session location together, future military plans, etc.
It was crazy! I am still processing it all.
All I can really say is that I am one happy camper!
I think it is pretty safe to say that this divorce has been BUSTED!!!
That is fantastic!!!!! I am so happy for you!!! I have a big silly grin for you right now.
Wow!!! Now the hardest thing is going to be sticking to your improvements. From the growth I have seen in your recent posts and the advice that you have been giving I thing you are going to be GREAT!!!
I am soo happy and excited and shocked. Lol. All rolled into one!
I know things will be hard. I am actually nervous about it. It will probably be another few weeks until we actually get jobs and find a new place to live which will give us time to prepare. There is a lot to talk about obviously. He is going to go to IC and I am going to continue mine, have a session tomorrow morning actually. He is going to come back to church too which is a very very good thing. He had stopped going when we were having problems because he did not want to spend time with me, even in that way.
I almost feel like I am going to be posting more than I am now because I am going to need lots of support and advice as I make the transition. I am definately staying on this board though! Even though we won't be separated anymore.
It has been a short amount of time but it has been a long, hard road if that makes sense. Something tells me this is only the beginning. But at least he loves me and wants me back. I feel like we have a much firmer foundation to stand on. It's almost better than getting married because this time around he knows EXACTLY what he is getting himself into. Lol.
