I guess I didn't see it until I reread what I wrote. Those posts kinda shocked me into seeing someone I don't even recognize anymore. It is so true that the wayward spouse becomes clouded. Thank goodness I didn't follow some of my thinking....I'm so lucky. And, so lucky to have found this forum. It really helped me turn onto the right path.
I do like myself better now. Low self esteem is a big cause for people to have affairs. It makes them feel better about themselves.....temporarily.....
