On one hand H said a few times he is not sure about any of this.
Dan, Dan , Dan..his actions speak louder than his words. The WAS actions always speak louder..
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On the other he said he doesn't want to be in limbo any longer.
Limbo?? Interesting..He's been acting like he is working onthe M..How is that Limbo?? His limbo is waiting for him....I'm afraid..I think she is back or he has a new one.
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I asked him if he had thought it through, to calling me his ex-wife, how he will feel the first Christmas he is not with the kids b/c his new wife wants him at home, etc. He said he hadn't thought that far down the line...
he won't deal with all that guilt right now. he knows if he pushes that back that when it does come up he will have to deal with it for a shorter period of time..when it happens..
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This morning I asked H if he had told his parents...he said he didn't think he needed to do that yet. WTF? I wonder if he wants to wait until his mom has her surgery.
he will wait until the last possible minute..he knows if he waits until then that will be two less people he has to listen to.
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On a different note, H commented after putting the kids to bed last night that D was sure fighting going to bed, she was hard to get to sleep, etc.....I said yeah, I know she is hard to put to bed...he looked at me and I could tell he realized what an a$$ he had been Sunday night when I was trying to get her to sleep.
