Hey BBJ,

Sunday night, your H was looking for a confrontation. If it was not your daughter and the difficulties to put her to bed, it would have been something else.

I wonder what he means by being in limbo. I have said this I do not know how many times. A large percentage of WAS have someone else in the wings (at the very least).....that is not what I call limbo....that is not what I call trying to make it work. I hope i am wrong but my own experience and the sitches i have read here all point in the same general direction.
The only chance we have is to really drop the rope and move on and wait to see if our WAS come back to their senses. However, like we have seen in some cases when the WAS wants to come back it is too late.
BBJ, i feel for you but sometimes I can't help but wonder if we all will not be better off in the long run.