everyone here TOH has tried the soft route..the 2 x 4 route, the blunt as hell route with you...nothing works....why do we do it/ because it pains everyone of us so deeply to see you think so little of your self to allow that poor excuse of a man to treat you so disrespectfully. he treats you like yesterdays cow sh!t. You let him use you for common labor, meals and whoring.Why? your heart tells you to allow this?

there are so many here who would walk the walk with you to truely find out who you are w/out that man. So many of us who would hold you up because in the beginning it would hurt so much. We all know that pain well.

We all too know there no reason he s gonna change what he is doing as long as you as available as you are for his common needs. These idiots will stay in limbo forever as long as it is the path of least resistance.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest