I'm with FLTC, it struck me that yuo really did completely let go and stopped contacting him altogether and even dated some new guy and THEN he comes back. Coincidence, or textbook scenario, I dont know. What was your IM chat about then, just an excuse to talk to you? Have you got any plans to meet up with your H again? And how you feeling about HG moving away in 2 weeks time? I guess you will miss him...
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread