Back to life, back to reality?

[AliSuddenly]

Definetly definely go to your friends house. Make him miss you, make him take responsibility for the things he said. Dont even think about going back into his headf*ck routing tonight.

There is something really wierd going on here, I know you say your 'pet' names are how you've always been, but this sounded really odd and kind of vaguely abusive to me...that he woke you up at 5 am and then started saying this stuff to you !?? In the middle of the night? And quite extreme things too.


"He woke up during the night, like 5 AM, and started poking at me. Once he grabbed my arm, then pushed it away as if I had been trying to grab him. He did this again. Then he ran his hand on my stomach and said I was too skinny like a war victim. He made jokes about how thin I was and how I have this pair of pants that I used to fill out but that now were baggy on me. He grabbed my nose, held my ear, etc. Then he said "you make me mad."...then he asked if I fed the dogs. He called me "bad dog mom". H said he needed to come in the bathroom for something, and threw water on me while I was in the shower."

Now, ITH, I am no pyschologist, but there is something really wierd going on here, in how he interacts with you (aside from the DBing/separation stuff he's been saying). I dont know what it is, but I get a really uncomfortable feeling reading it. I thikn he may be screwed up in some way, is all I can come up with.

I think theres some major projection going on and these are what I call 'leakers' - my ex did it (in body language, certain remarks about OTHER people).. its like stuff leaking out of their subconcious that they are totally not owning in themselves or up to with you. Can you see that?