downhill from here

[badcompany]

here's another reason I don't trust her: the OM left my wife to go back to his girlfriend in august and he slept with my wife (or my wife slept with him) as recent as 4 weeks ago. my wife's response "I didn't care that he was back with her. I just love having sex"

statements like this make it easy for me to put distance between us. She is clearly not 100% over him, no matter how many nasty things she says or how many things he does to her.

I have recently found emails between the two of them from when we were separated and she was cheating. things like "i love you........we're soul mates.......i love how open i can be with you" and the penultimate, a naked picture of my wife sent to his cell phone with the words "let me know what you think....can't wait to F*** you !"

talk about kicking a guy when he's down. I just found all these things this past week.

the old saying "what they don't know won't hurt them" rings true

do I feel any better now that I found them ? worse. I have to remember they were all from when her head was in the cloud of lust, and (hopefully) she is trying to be different now.