1)No, I wouldn't say that she considers herself such a person. And I may have been unclear, but I think I mentioned that we took one another's virginity, so she's had no previous partners.
4)Very little of this sort of touching. And no, no orgasms for me outside of intercourse.
Thanks for the AASECT info. I'm sorry if I offended you. It's not that I don't like the link; I'm just now learning the internet and have heard all sorts of horror stories about bad sites, viruses, etc. I spent nearly a 100 dollars on some security software. Again, I apologize if I offended you. And good advice about The 5 Sex Needs of Men and Women: I've read it but never really made an effort to put its advice into practice. I've no doubt that I can be an unbearable b*st*rd when I'm not happy. Even if I just work on meeting one of the 5 needs consistently, it'll probably make a big difference. Thanks again.