Nut - the sad fact is, I'm serious about her Happy Meal order. She is a zoo.
As for not trusting her, I don't. I won't be giving away any of my time w/out compensation of time in return. Tonight I sent her a text asking about her decision on my seeing D tomorrow after her conference and when I called tonight to talk w/ D we discussed it.
She said she'd talked to her L and he advised her not to give me too much b/c I can take her back to court and use it against her. I told her I'm planning on working w/ the agreement for a year and wouldn't plan to do any evaluating until then. I told her there are a lot of things we both can do concerning custody and the courts at a later date. I then said:
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it is up to you if you want me to have dinner w/ her tomorrow. She is on your time and it really boils down to what you are comfortable with doing. I appreciate the offer, but if it doesn't work for you, that is fine and you have that right b/c she's on your time tomorrow.
XW then said D may not go to school b/c she threw up and followed that up w/ a discussion of the various restaurants in the area. I told her to let me know as the decision of whether or not I'm w/ D tomorrow really means I either leave school at 2:45 if I'm to get her or 3:00 if I'm just going to the conference.
So, as usual, who really knows?
Concerning the pension, I'm going to submit our stuff later this week and I'm hoping this will work out in my favor. It would be nice to have ONE card go my way in this game.
We did decide to have them evaluated and then negotiate a buy out for the person who is scheduled to get more. I'm praying it is me and even though it is a bit childish on my part, I do want it to sting a little bit. It is revenge, but I'm allowed to be a bit human, right?
