Thank you for your feedback. I have found a Dinner curse with dinner, dancing and wine. I think I will wait on that for maybe the holidays.
I have found that if I give her something new, but something she likes. It is hard but I haven't given her anything that would reminder her of the old R. These example may sound stupid and silly, but I have given her two boxes of malted milk balls candy. She like them. I sent her 6 boxes of her favorite oatmeal that she could not find in the stores. I found them on the net and had them mailed to her. She like the way the hotels fold their toilet paper for the guests. I sent her a roll folded in the same way. I sent her a funny card.
These are things that I knew would make her smile and think of the good things. She really likes me in my leathers. I think it turn her on. I offered to get a pair of leather paints.
You have to do what you have to do with school. Don't stop. Don't tire yourself out. Stay on an even keel; don't let your sail flutter in the wind.
You have a few pars yourself. We may shoot par on this course yet.