OK, I found out something today and I really need some advise.
In June 2007, we had a party for our friends birthday. I'd noticed H and another friend always by each other. H had told me the day after the party that the friend had asked him for his cell phone number. The friend and her boyfriend have been having problems for quite some time. Oh yea, she has a smoken hot body. I'd mentioned all of this to my friend who the party was for. At the time, she said that she couldn't see our friend doing this. She'd known her for quite some time (I'd only recently met her) and she didn't think that she'd asked him for his number and we left it at that.
Today, I spoke with my friend and I finally had the courage to ask her why she'd asked H for his number. Needless to say, she'd told me she'd been waiting to tell me the truth since it'd happened because she had told H that we were all friends and that was all it was going to be. She'd told me that he had been making comments to her when we'd have get togethers prior to the party and at the party he followed her everywhere and wanted her number to see about going to lunch sometime to talk about her problems and be a shoulder for her. He'd apologized to her a couple of months after the party saying he'd probably had too much to drink.
H doesn't want to get back together at all with me. I know that there are successful DBers out there that there H/W's have said the same thing. So, do I continue trying to reconcile?
