Max, you wanted to know if there were any success stories where the W had strayed and they ended up together. Well, I will give you the latest link to one of my favorites. It is not the beginning of his thread, but you will get the the idea. They just had a baby, and at first, he wasn't even sure if it was his. His W had had a PA with one man and either an EA or PA with a second man. So, if you can find his story from the beginning, it might be encouraging to you. But here is the link to his latest thread. It is kind of short b/b he has been so busy with the new baby, etc.