Just thought I would share what I decided to send STBXH today. SHort and to the point:

Thanks for sending the email. How about you send me your thoughts and idea so I can go over it. I'm interested in what you think is fair as far as finaces. We can start from there.

What do you think?

Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1599046&page=0&fpart=1