I do stuff like that all the time, karen. And I'll probably do it again. Just like the book I just bought for her. It's just who we are. We do things out of the kindness of our hearts. It's ok. I do it and never expect anything in return. It's just what I've always done. Thought about her. I always got something for her before I got something for myself.
I can't remember. It was maybe a few weeks ago, I got her fave candy bar while I was at the store buying something. Something I had to get for her. I left it in the bag at her apartment with out saying anything.
So don't beat yourself up about it.
And great job on handling the bill. It may not have been a big job, but you took care of it. You can do so much more than you believe you can, sometimes. You can do things just as good as he can. Your learning.
I'm proud of you.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."