OK, that all sounds good, good job! I think this will bring a little reality to the situation. No need to do anything now, just get the numbers. If he keeps pushing for end of the month move-out date you can use them. No need to decide who gets the house, etc. Try not to think so far ahead.
Hang in there!
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK