LD- You have grown from this and will continue to grow. You'll come out the other side a better man, a wiser man. It is still early in the game so keep on keeping on. Listen to your feelings and look at them objectively. Sometimes what we do in life really is a script and we don't see it. So much of what has happened in my life is a repeat of others in my life. Who I married and how I acted in the marriage as well as how my ExW acted being a function of her family interaction.

It is wonderful process if you are willing to partake. It is the positive side of all of this if you use the self discovery to grow.

There will be a net gain from this for a guy like yourself. You've got to break a few eggs to make an omelette.

Whether you know it or not you're helping me. It is a two way street.

Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final