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[AliSuddenly]

God thats soooo wierd!??? He walks in and says, what, no argument and then watches scrubs with you... and then says he thinks he will cook you fish tommorow nigth!?? Your H is seriously confused. He is giving you extreme mixed messages, or maybe it is his way of being 'nice' and smoothing the transiition from M to not M. I dont know ITH, its a very confusing picture.

Well done for asking/snooping.. I know its frowned upon here, but I thikn in the early days its good to be armed with the knowledge of what you are dealing with. I agree, read MLC stuff and talk with Jody again. There is alot to tell her !!! Like i said though, my ex was adamant there was noone else, and all year, and even after all that daily contact HE was initiating, but as soon as the ow was available (I assume) he went out with her and dropped me. I dont mean to bring my sitch in here, its just mine didnt add up either and everyone else, without exception was NOT surprised when it turned out to be an ow. I hope that isnt the case for you, as that would complicate things further.

Maybe you should let him know tommoorw that you are not coming home (instead of not turning up, which mught be seen as a bit passive aggressive? What does anyone else think?) Maybe a short message at the end of the day, saying you respect he wanted some space, so you are going to x house until x day?

Ali xxx