Back to life, back to reality?

[optimistwife]

Is your husband having severe depression? Is he getting treatment for this? I think hard part is that whatever problems he is blaming on you and the marriage are 'real' to him- even if they don't appear to be that way to you. His perception of reality is warped right now.

I do agree with the others that it isn't over yet! Haven't you heard this talk before? I have- and I am still married (uh um- well legally). He is really pushing you right now.

Call and schedule a councelling session with Jody now! Or if you can't get one with her can you talk to someone? I think you could benefit from some professional DB around now. I know I always have a much better perspective after a session.

Take care of yourself. Stay away from you H and contact for a day or so. You both need it! Dont' let the negativity go any further.