Two sessions and ours said we should S! With no plan whatsover to make sure the S did not turn to D! Brilliant eh?
Like saying to a suicidal person.... "Here, hold my loaded gun for me but dont shoot yourself".
There was no plan, no timeline, no discussion of how we would behave during S, not discussion of communication, bill paying, child time, etc. Just "Separate" and see how it goes.
Yet, I will take the blame for being even dumber than the cousnelor because I paid him! Duh.
Anyway... my point again is choose a counselor that believes the way you do. Are they a marriage-saver or an orderly-dismantler?
We place as much trust in them as we do a brain surgeon. I would suggest that we dont just choose out of the yellow pages and definitely do not go low-bid.
My thoughts and experiences anyway.
I cant believe I am saying this but I actually am smirking at this moment realizing how stupid my whole counselor sitch was. Not what the sting is gone, it is actually so asenine it is funny. I could not have scripted a dumber sitch.
