Back to life, back to reality?

[istherehope]

Hi Ali,

Thanks for this. I think our posts just crossed paths. I really think that this is just him and his own life changes. He was basically suicidal 3 months ago, and he is now blaming this on the M and me.

I went through a long conversation with him last night where I asked him was there anyone who made him feel the way I didn't, and he said no. Sure, he could be lying, and I actually have done as much snooping as possible, but I really don't think there is anything beyond liking the feeling of being single and getting attention. The 25 year old I mentioned was a "buddy" on some couch-surfing website, but he knew her through another friend, so I really think it is just a matter of liking the attention.

Yeah I have no desire to bring up this thing any time. If it were up to me, we'd leave it for a month. I will not be staying at home tomorrow night, by my choice, so this should help matters.

Thanks for your support Ali. Crossing my fingers...

ITH