Hey there Goldeylox, I'm actually still with the first C. I've resolved to not let him push me into giving up. She had been going to her IC for the past year to work on many childhood issues that she had(s) - but with that being said anything is possible. I didn't get the vibe from her that something was up. There was a distance in the last few months that had come up but that was due to work related stress. The online communications had been few and far between the last few months. I wasn't chatting with these other women. It was emails that were going back and forth. I truly believe that the online activity was an escape from reality. Not necessarily from my wife. I've NEVER had any ill feelings towards my wife. I enjoy the time I spend with her. I wish we could spend more to be honest. I think the distance between us made her start to think that I was having an affair. I imagine that's why she scheduled an appointment for us with an MC. Unfortunately she reached her boiling point a few days before we were scheduled to go.
