Oh and in case I didn't make this clear...I am pro marriage all the way. I think it is a wonderful,beautiful and socially/culturally important institution. I cringe when people I know go through divorce.
Had a friend of mine come to me and tell me that his W of 37 years had filed for divorce. Turns out he was having an affair with a woman 27 years his junior. I know the woman. She is gorgeous. All this guy could do was rave about the sex like alittle boy who got it for the first time. He is an educated doctor for crying out loud and I listened to his drivel for awhile before I chewed his arse up one side and down the other.
Afterwards I asked him him how he might feel if he had been that betrayed and if he had even stopped for second to contemplate the hurt and pain he was causing....all I got was a stupid look.
I told him to really think about what he was destroying, what he was losing (37 yrs and all that goes with that). I told him there was no way in hell he could ever duplicate or find what he was throwing away.
Then I looked up on his wall and saw a picture of his W and kids. I commented how beautiful his W and family were and told him she deserved better and would no doubt find it. I left him in a state of shock. What a putz! If a man is bored with a woman because she shows some age and has the body of a more mature woman after having several kids.....it is because he is boring.
Me- 47 W- 45 Married 22 years Together 30 years No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat 2005 - 2007 W in MLT 1/08 - Crisis hits 3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA 4/08 W files for divorce 8/08 Divorce final