Creeping through no man's land

[ACJ]

I didn't realise my last thread locked. I've not really had anything to update so hadn't opened it myself to post.

There is still not really anything to update except the fact that I have had my L tell H that if he wants a D he will have to pay all my costs. I think it's a cheek to want so much in the way of money (to pay of his debts - so he can start to accrue them again) and then still expect me to pay HIS divorce. I just got a copy of the letter she sent today so I guess it will be the same routine of me receiving a reply at the weekend. Oh whoopee.

I've started referring to the letters my L forwards me from Hs L as 'love letters from H'. That's just my way of coping but D13 didn't find it very funny when she realised what I was talking about. Will have to keep that to myself in future

I've chosen the title to this thread b/c I'm beginning to feel like a soldier crawling across the ground between two trenches. i daren't put my head up for fear of it being shot off.