Well we / Hurt each other / Then we do it again

[MichelleLT]

Well, locked my own thread.

Here's my last post:

HAHAHA

I think things might be more complicated if he wasn't leaving the country for a year. But since HG is currently prepping to go, there is no real race as far as that is concerned. HG is quite a looker with the bluest eyes like ever,

Regardless of HG, it's more a matter of H's actions whether he's in the race at all or not. We shall see what happens with that lol.

I got my reservation for AZ. Leaving on the second, coming back on the 12th!

Small update: chatted a bit with H on IM. Nothing big, just chit chat initiated by him.

((((((everyone)))))))

Who wants what to drink????


Kris: Was gonna post to you on your thread, but it's locked so here it is:

Yay for furniture!!!!!!!!

I understand about the small town thing. Not where I currently live, but where they live at any rate, I always had to wonder if I'd see one/both of them. Stressful.

Don't let it slow you down though. I think the dread you are feeling over the possibility would probably be worse than the actual experience. Since it seems to be very situation oriented, I'm not personally sure meds would help, but of course your doctor would know far better than I.

Frankly, what do you have to be anxious about? That he'll see you out alone? With your new guy? Looking happy and relaxed? That you are moving into your own place, really doing something with your life? If anything, he should be jealous! LOL.

((((((Kris))))))

[klm]

Margarita please. I have cut them out due to me trying to lose a few pounds....but a virtual one couldn't hurt right???

[MichelleLT]

The virtual ones are the best kind!

[One Day]

(((Beautiful Michelle))))

I'll have a mojito if there's one going?

Hope you're well and having a great day,

L. xx

[MichelleLT]

Oooh I can always whip up a batch of those! I love mint.

[jon2911]

OK, I'll take one then! W and I bought a kit with the glass thing and the wooden pestle thing - not sure the correct terms, but separated right after. So I've never made a real mojito.

[mishka422]

So make one now Jon. What's stopping you? Did she take the mortar and pestle?

I have a great mottler for my shaker. Love mojitos!!! I'll have one too please.

[GoingForward]

Got any tequila? I'll take a shot or two!

Glad you're feeling better.

(((((Michelle)))))

[MichelleLT]

Heh. You can have the tequila! I overdosed on the stuff a couple times this summer. I'm sticking to beer/wine/vodka/baileys for a while (not in the same glass LOL).

Another batch of mojitos coming right up!

(((everyone)))

[FLTC]

Michelle,

After being on the board for over two years, you attitude and way of reacting is the prtottype behavior for detaching, moving on AND i'ts the type of behavior that each and every time was present in those people whose spouse returned. GAL and really detaching and not pursuing are the way to go. You go girl!

What are your plans if husband wants to reconcile?