Convinced my M is over; trying to move forward.

[dday101798]

LE,

As I said, my W and I were the same way, I think it was 3 1/2 weeks of absolutely nothing.

Now, We talk every night for about an hour if not more, and have been messaging back and forth so much that my messages for the month are almost used up.

Truely, in my case, the lack of communication has been a good thing, whether it be for the R or M, before this dark period, we had become bitter enimies. I'm not sure if W is being 100% truthful at all in how she's making it sound how she feels, but we're civil, and that's good enough for now.

The only person IMO that can point out the damamge done IS the WAS to themselves. In my case, all our/her friends have asked her what in the world she thinks she's doing. She turned her back on them. Her own family has done the same, she turned her back on them.

And as for the distance of seperation, oh yeah, you have no idea. Although as everything with W & OM starts to break down, it's always nice to walk by coming or going from the train and NOT see his car there.

I only hope at this juncture she realises the impact this will always have on our kids as I have pointed many times. A fling goes on for as lon gas it does, this is their lives.