I need to catch up on your thread, but reading the post above I'd say that you should do a 180 and not reply. Leave it overnight and surprise him by doing something he won't expect. Back off completely for now. And remember believe none of what they say. I know it hurts terribly and is horrible, but you absolutely must pull back right now.
OK, I'm just going to go back and read the previous posts.
L. xx
PS. Sorry if I sound a bit short- just in the middle of cooking my dinner.
