Mike he will be so pi$$ed when I don't want to co-sign. He will say that he cosigned on my (our) house in June, but we all know I told him I didn't even want him to! He will get angry and may even threaten to try and get his name off my/our current mortgage, but in the end he won't do it b/c it would hurt the kids if we lost our house....
I know he will. He will be pissed beyond pissed. He may break a hand this time. He will spew bad. By not signing you're blocking him. You're keeping him from doing what he wants to do. He will read your not signing as you trying to get back at him for him not working on the M..I'm willing to wager...
I also hope I'm really wrong and that won't happen. I hope he does not blow. I still say it's not in your best interest to co-sign anything without talking to a L WHO YOU RETAIN. If Dan wants to use the same L then fine but you make sure you pick and retain the L, that way the L works for you and not Dan..