Hi Faithrunner, I would suggest going over to T2L post 2...she posted great advice today and it is all encouraging. I have been down and it really helped me get through the day and have some successful Dbing going on.

We have to "drop that rope" and stop worrying about OW and stay focused on fighting for our marriage.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09