I'm pretty sure the meeting was by coincidence b/c XW has been bringing OM to the restaurant for the drop off each week. This is the 1st time I've met him, but he's been there in a booth so I'm pretty sure it is a coincidence. Actually, D and I were early, so we arrived before XW and OM did. They were surprised to see us there before them - because I'm "always" late, remember?
So, I still don't trust her as far as I can throw her and now that she's only about 115, I'd bet I could chuck her pretty far.