Originally Posted By: kat727
Well ex certainly was in the deep fog when he agreed to all the financials because he isn't doing so great with all of that now.

It would be so much easier if I didn't have to see him and deal with his whoa is me campaign. Maybe someday.

kat
My stbx is going to be in the same shape financially I think. He thinks they will let him keep most of his salary and have me work full-time which I just don't think will happen although I could be wrong of course!!!

Do you have to deal with his whoa is me? I mean can't you just cut him off somehow or say that's his problem or his responsibility now not yours, like Good luck with that? I mean I know I'm naive, but that's kind of what I'm planning on doing when I start hearing it from my H next year!!! Karen


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