I am also doing the same attorney thing because it is pretty amicable and the split will be down the middle. I guess I could probably fight for more but since i am a sap errrr....nice guy(and for D7's sake) I will split everythin 50 / 50.
Your H being at home will be very difficult. I know it was for me. It is easy to act as if but tough to begin the detaching process.
