Rob, I soooo agree with Kalni!! Your XW is not to be trusted in any way. She has lead you on so many times and then accused you of horrible things. She was busy having a relationship with apartment guy , during the divorce proceedings. Not normal. You stick to the letter of the law with the visitation and divorce agreement. You tried to be nice and reasonable many times , but it did no good. I would be very very suspicious about her divorce L being there when you met OM. It was absurd for her to have you meet him in front of D. Your XW sounds totally self absorbed. Be on guard and discuss only details for the time being . Somehow. I have a feeling you will be seeing more of your D than you think. Especially when it gives her a night alone with OM.
