T2L, thanks for your thoughts and insights this morning. Your right about not preaching to H. I did do that at the beginning of this and I know it did not sit well with him because all it did was lay a guilt trip on him.

So how is everything going with you and H. Any progress? If you are thinking of putting your rings on again, I would say that is encouraging.

My H seems to be pulling a NC with me. I saw him Sat for about 5 minutes but had not really seen him prior to that from the Wed before and last decent conversation with him was on Thursday. H has been non-stop with OW since Friday night.

Actually I need his help, our fire detector keeps beeping in our bedroom and we have vaulted ceilings. I tried to get it last night and I can't reach it even with small ladder. I am hoping he calls me because I could not sleep last night and every time it beeps the dog goes crazy running around the house. I am ready to throw a brick at it. Should I call him? I do not have anyone else that I am close to that could come over and fix it. (how sad is that).


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09